Raina Kelley

My So-Called Life

In the event this is a deal breaker, you should know right off the bat that "The Stolen Child," by Keith Donohue, belongs to the genre known as fantasy, and that its pages are populated by hobgoblins and changelings.

Knock Knock

Millions of people dream of starting a small business, but 36-year-old Jen Bilik wasn't one of them. Instead, she wanted to write a memoir designed like an illustrated, annotated yearbook.

Safety: Baby, One More Time

Oops. She did it again. Britney Spears was photographed driving last week, with her son, Sean Preston, in an improperly installed car seat. It's easy to pile on Britney, but experts say it's not an uncommon mistake for new moms and dads.

Ask the Pro

Matrimonial LawyerTrapped in a miserable marriage? TIP SHEET's Raina Kelley asked Felder how to get out with your dignity and your shirt.Gather all the financial info you can 'cause it's often a matter of he who has the best information wins.

Ask Tip Sheet

Do U.S. presidents and other heads of state travel with a passport? And do they need to pass through customs in each country? What about their staff?--M. Shaffer, Albany, N.Y.

The Checklist

TIVO 'Commander in Chief.' Oh, no--Madame President! Your new time slot puts you up against "ER" and "Without a Trace" (ABC, Thurs., 10 p.m., ET). BUY the Time Mug.

Ask Tip Sheet

Blame the casket makers. Traditionally, the left side of a casket is upholstered and cushioned, while the right side is finished but not fancy. This is because during open viewings, nobody sees the entire coffin.

Ask Tip Sheet

Are there quality differences in stainless steel--i.e., cost variances (and cleanability)--in stainless kitchen sinks? If so how, and why?--Faye Pugh, Calgary, Alta.

Snap Judgment: Books

Abide With Me by Elizabeth Strout Loss pervades every page of this follow-up to Strout's best-selling novel "Amy and Isabelle." Don't be deterred. Strout has an uncanny ability to express each character's obsession with a past that can't come back but won't go away.

When the Name Game Isn't Just a Game

The protagonist of Colson Whitehead's new novel, "Apex Hides the Hurt," is a "nomenclature consultant"--a veritable Adam of Madison Avenue. He's also a mystery, moving through the book without a name or an immediate explanation for why he limps or what the "misfortune" was that's caused him to leave his high-flying career.

Technology: Wireless For Less

The price of wireless printers is dropping. So is the weight, as brands offer smaller options. Want to get unplugged? Here are some new offerings that stack up well: the Dell All-in- One Printer 964 scans, faxes and prints an impressive 26 pages per minute from any room in your house ($199 plus $99 for the Wireless Adapter 3300; dell.com ).

VIDEO STOREFOOTBALL

Celebrate the glory of the Super Bowl with a pigskin film fest. Here are our gridiron picks. 'All the Right Moves' Tom Cruise plays his way out of a dying Pa.

New Year In Vegas

If you're looking for a New Year's Eve that never stops rocking, check out Las Vegas. The city's celebration includes fireworks shot from the roofs of 10 casinos along the Strip, or raise your glass at the World's Largest Toast; admission is $40 and includes performances by Cheap Trick and the Spin Doctors ( vegasexperience.com ).

Holiday Countdown

The reason we loved holidays is kids isn't just because we got all those presents. It's because we didn't have to do anything! Children don't have to stay up writing cards while baking 12 dozen cookies for 13 different social events and wrapping gifts between batches.

History: What Rosa Really Means

The death of civil-rights hero Rosa Parks may raise questions for your children. Here is a list of resources that will help them make sense of an America when liberty and justice weren't available to all."Rosa Parks: My Story" ($6.29; amazon.com ) is an autobiography for grades four through six.

Theater: Off-Broadway

They say the neon lights are bright on Broadway, but this season, great theater will shine all over New York City. Off-Broadway shows are typically cheaper than their White Way cousins, but that doesn't mean that the tickets are easy to get.

Into The Wild

Fall is here, and that means fewer bugs and no crowds--the perfect time for camping. Grab your tent (try the Eureka Titan, www.eurekacamping.com) and this cool gear and get backpacking.1.

GERMS SPREAD FASTER THAN GOSSIP

When you're away from home, being sick can be scary. We could tell you to eat right, exercise and get some sleep, but you won't, so here are some other tips for taking care of yourself:Before you leave for school, get a complete physical, a copy of your immunization record from your doc and a list of any allergies, past medical problems or special needs.

CHEAT SHEET: SODA SIP-OFF

A cold soda sure is refreshing on a hot day. But which one? Last week Coca-Cola unveiled Coke Zero, a no-calorie drink meant to taste like regular Coke. That brought the grand total of Cokes and Pepsis to 28--yes, 28.

BASKET CASES

The best part of a picnic isn't the food or the great outdoors: it's the gear. A classic wicker oval picnic basket ($60; crateandbarrel.com) is perfect for a romantic date by the lake.

HOME: SPLENDOR IN YOUR GRASS

Unless Tiger Woods is coming over to shag balls, you don't need grass that looks like Augusta National's. Suburban lawn warriors use 10 times the pesticides per acre that farmers do, and don't get us started on all the gas and oil in those lawnmowers.

PIMP MY KITCHEN

Last week's International Home & Housewares Show had acres of iconic kitchen gear tricked out in colors so bright we thought we were in Tahiti, not Chicago. Even if you never cook at home, these gadgets will look fabulous just sitting out on your counter.

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